When you’re single, Valentine’s Day can be awkward.And if you’re in the beginning stages of dating, a dramatic gesture of romance probably seems more than just a little over the top.With that being said, your matches might have unspoken expectations: ladies might be put off if a guy they’re seeing doesn’t acknowledge the day or ask them to celebrate and guys may be surprised if their match doesn’t say yes to the plans offered.

Gift-giving can be super stressful (even if you've been together for ages!

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Seriously, do not bring up Valentine's Day if your budding relationship falls within this timeframe. 14, that doesn't particularly indicate anything good or bad, just that he doesn't want to deal with the pressure this early on, and is afraid that you are expecting THIS: Which is a fear that I totally understand, objectively.

(Subjectively, of course, I want him to knock on my door holding a chocolate bar that says "I Won't Bail Like Your Dad Did" on it, but I don't make the rules.)5 to 10 dates: This one is less cut-and-dry.