They will work on a desktop, a laptop or a mobile device such as a mobile phone or tablet. We have been around since 23 March 2000 and, with your help, we hope to be around long into the future.

If you have just joined our website then choose a nickname.

If you are on a personal connection, like at home, you can run an anti-virus scan on your device to make sure it is not infected with malware.

If you are at an office or shared network, you can ask the network administrator to run a scan across the network looking for misconfigured or infected devices.

Getting to know you conversations generally work best when the two of you are in the same room together.

The reason being, most communication has very little to do with the words that you use and a lot more to do with things like body language and tone of voice.